Dedicated to the XY component

Studio : Jean Baptiste-Corot

For the men who’ve walked in and out of my life
And trampled all over my heart and demonstrated just how tough it is
For the power struggles and conflicts
And the reshaping of me that came from it
For the betrayals and insults
And the lessons I learnt from them
For the distances and walls
And the strength I saw in myself at those moments
For the apologies and the remorse
And the compassion that I was surprised to feel
For burdens and expectations
And all my victories that were inspired by them
For challenges and opposition
And the direction that they pointed me in
For support and solidarity and belief in me

For the male component of my life
For being….

the father
the brother
the lover
the friend

the mentor
the teacher
the protector
the supporter

the idol
the opponent
the jailor
the other side

For love and tears
and smiles and conversations
and struggles and victories
and relationships and emotions

For completing and complementing me

A very happy Valentine’s day.

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4 thoughts on “Dedicated to the XY component

  1. Rakhi March 1, 2009 at 04:21 Reply

    this was beautiful. i seem to have made a habit out of picking your old posts out of the archive. πŸ˜›


  2. IdeaSmith March 9, 2009 at 11:34 Reply

    @ Rakhi: Thank you very much! I’m really touched. While everything I have written is personally dear to me, I can’t tell you what a thrill it is, to have another person take the effort to go through my past posts and find something they like.


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